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Proponents of Marriage Equality Plan Another Demonstration Friday

May 14, 2013 By: Cal Skinner Category: Marriage, Same-Sex Marriage

A press release from Unitarian Universalist Congregation in McHenry (Tree of Life):

Growing Support Spurs Marriage Equality Vigil in Woodstock

McHenry—Members of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in McHenry (Tree of Life), Parents and Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) and Fortunate Families, a Catholic family group will once again be holding a silent roadside vigil in support of Marriage Equality in Illinois.

They will gather this time in Woodstock at the corner of South Eastwood Drive (Rt. 47) and Country Club Road on Friday, May 17 from 5 to 6:30 pm.

Marriage Equality demonstration in McHenry.

Marriage Equality demonstration in McHenry.

“This week Minnesota became joined Rhode Island and Delaware becoming the third state to enact marriage equality legislation in the last month,” Patrick Murfin, Social Justice Committee chair of the U.U. Congregation said.

“With growing public support in Illinois we join Governor Pat Quinn in urging the state House of Representatives to vote for the landmark bill which has already passed the Senate.”

After quick passage in the Senate, a vote on the Religious Freedom and Marriage Fairness Act stalled in the lower house while the chamber turned its attention to pension reform, the concealed carry gun debate, and other contentious issues.

Advocates for and against same gender marriage have ginned up lobbying efforts in the meantime.

“It is particularly important for legislators to know that not all religious communities and individuals oppose civil marriage for all,” Murfin said. “Many religious voices join us in Standing on the Side of Love.”

Previous vigils were held in McHenry and Crystal Lake where they drew strong support from passing motorists.

Anyone can join the vigil. Volunteers are urged to bring their own signs and maintain a thoughtful and respectful attitude.

For more information contact Patrick Murfin, 815 814-5645 or e-mail pmurfin@sbcglobal.net.

Illinois Family Institute Seeking Lobbyists for a Day to Defend Marriage

February 10, 2013 By: Cal Skinner Category: Gay Marriage, Gay Rights, Illinois Family Institute, Marriage

This email from David E. Smith, Executive Director of the Illinois Family Institute was labeled

Lobby Day Bus from Crystal Lake

Defend Marriage Lobby Day – Feb. 20th

Marriage symbol

“Marriage: One Man, One Woman” is the Illinois Family Institute’s message.

As you know, the IFI Defend Marriage Lobby Day is coming up fast: Wednesday, February 20th.

I hope and pray you will be able to join us! A strong presence in Springfield is essential to stopping the push to redefine marriage. (Read more about it HERE.)

For those of you in the Crystal Lake area of the state, you may be interested in knowing that our good friend Kathy Barnette and Truth Exchange Ministries is chartering a coach bus for this important event. Seating on the bus is limited and available on a first-come first-serve basis.

To register for this bus, visit truthexchange.net and learn more details. You can also click HERE to download a flyer for this bus ride opportunity.

If you have any questions, please email Kathy at KathyBarnette@TruthExchange.net.

Blessings,

David E. Smith, IFI Executive Director

Smith offers the following as background information:

The chief sponsor of this anti-family legislation, State Representative Gregg Harris (D-Chicago) is on record saying that the new Illinois General Assembly is on a “fast track” to pass legislation to redefine the institution of marriage.

In addition, homosexual activists with the Civil Rights Agenda, Equality Illinois, Stonewall Democrats, Illinois Log Cabin Republicans, and the ACLU of Illinois have been pushing hard for the passage of this anti-marriage bill.

We cannot afford to ignore this situation! Illinois citizens can send a strong message by joining us at the Capitol on February 20th to rally to protect God-ordained marriage in Illinois and to lobby their legislators.

Over the past few weeks, we have been busy contacting churches in key districts. Thousands of religious leaders from across the state have responded, voicing their opposition to marriage redefinition to local state lawmakers.

We can stop this legislation despite the “fast track” it may be on. We should be encouraged by the fact that recently hundreds of thousands of marriage supporters came out to demonstrate their opposition to same-sex “marriage” in Paris, France! (Watch a YouTube video of it HERE, and read the Reuters report HERE.)

There is strong opposition to same-sex marriage here in Illinois. The establishment media would have us believe that it is only a matter of time — that marriage redefinition is inevitable. It is only inevitable if we fail to speak up and demonstrate our objection to this radical policy!

If the secular French can see the importance of coming out to defend natural marriage — certainly the Christian community can do it. And we must!

Cardinal George Reflects on Chick-fil-A Flap: “Was Jesus a Bigot?”

July 31, 2012 By: Cal Skinner Category: Cardinal George, Chick-Fil-A, D and M Computers, Gay Marriage, Homosexual Agenda, Homosexual Marriage, Marriage

The following was published on the Chicago Catholic Blog Sunday, July 29th. McHenry County Blog has received permission to reprint the column by Cardinal Francis George:

Reflections on “Chicago values”

Recent comments by those who administer our city seem to assume that the city government can decide for everyone what are the “values” that must be held by citizens of Chicago.

I was born and raised here, and my understanding of being a Chicagoan never included submitting my value system to the government for approval.

Must those whose personal values do not conform to those of the government of the day move from the city?

Is the City Council going to set up a “Council Committee on Un-Chicagoan Activities” and call those of us who are suspect to appear before it?

I would have argued a few days ago that I believe such a move is, if I can borrow a phrase, “un-Chicagoan.”

Cardinal Francis George

The value in question is espousal of “gender-free marriage.” Approval of state-sponsored homosexual unions has very quickly become a litmus test for bigotry; and espousing the understanding of marriage that has prevailed among all peoples throughout human history is now, supposedly, outside the American consensus. Are Americans so exceptional that we are free to define “marriage” (or other institutions we did not invent) at will? What are we re-defining?

It might be good to put aside any religious teaching and any state laws and start from scratch, from nature itself, when talking about marriage.

Marriage existed before Christ called together his first disciples two thousand years ago and well before the United States of America was formed two hundred and thirty six years ago.

Neither Church nor state invented marriage, and neither can change its nature.

Marriage exists because human nature comes in two complementary sexes: male and female.

The sexual union of a man and woman is called the marital act because the two become physically one in a way that is impossible between two men or two women.

Whatever a homosexual union might be or represent, it is not physically marital.

Gender is inextricably bound up with physical sexual identity; and “gender-free marriage” is a contradiction in terms, like a square circle.

Both Church and state do, however, have an interest in regulating marriage.

It is not that religious marriage is private and civil marriage public; rather, marriage is a public institution in both Church and state.

The state regulates marriage to assure stability in society and for the proper protection and raising of the next generation of citizens.

The state has a vested interest in knowing who is married and who is not and in fostering good marriages and strong families for the sake of society.

The Church, because Jesus raised the marital union to the level of symbolizing his own union with his Body the Church, has an interest in determining which marital unions are sacramental and which are not.

The Church sees married life as a path to sanctity and as the means for raising children in the faith, as citizens of the universal kingdom of God.

These are all legitimate interests of both Church and state, but they assume and do not create the nature of marriage.

People who are not Christian or religious at all take for granted that marriage is the union of a man and a woman for the sake of family and, of its nature, for life.

The laws of civilizations much older than ours assume this understanding of marriage.

This is also what religious leaders of almost all faiths have taught throughout the ages.

Jesus affirmed this understanding of marriage when he spoke of “two becoming one flesh” (Mt. 19: 4-6).

Was Jesus a bigot?

Could Jesus be accepted as a Chicagoan?

Would Jesus be more “enlightened” if he had the privilege of living in our society?

One is welcome to believe that, of course; but it should not become the official state religion, at least not in a land that still fancies itself free.

Surely there must be a way to properly respect people who are gay or lesbian without using civil law to undermine the nature of marriage.

Surely we can find a way not to play off newly invented individual rights to “marriage” against constitutionally protected freedom of religious belief and religious practice.

The State’s attempting to redefine marriage has become a defining moment not for marriage, which is what it is, but for our increasingly fragile “civil union” as citizens.

Francis Cardinal George, OMI
Archbishop of Chicago

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A Chic-fil-A restaurant will open in Crystal Lake on Route 14 just west of Route 31 on August 9th.

Update from United Methodist Church General Conference in Tampa – Conservatives Winning Most Votes, Setbacks for Abortion & Israeli Divestment Supporters

April 29, 2012 By: Cal Skinner Category: Abortion, Confessing Movement, Convention, First United Methodist Church of Crystal Lake, General Conference, Good News, Homosexual Agenda, Homosexuals, Institute on Religion and Democracy, Israel, Mark Tooley, Marriage, Methodist Church, Religious Coalition of Reproductive Choice, Tampa

Here is an update from Mark Tooley of the Institute of Religion and Democracy about what happened Saturday:

United Methodist Action is a division of the IRD.

Update from General Conference

Your prayers are being heard!

The Church and Society legislative committee, finishing its work Saturday night, rejected attempts to liberalize United Methodism’s teaching on marriage and sexual behavior, especially homosexuality.

Quite historic, as typically this committee is stacked with a liberal majority and rejects the church’s position, only to be overturned in the full plenary!

Praise God!

The same committee also voted for the first time for United Methodism to withdraw from the infamous Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice, which United Methodism sadly helped found in 1973 to promote unrestricted abortion rights. It will be historic if the full plenary confirms this vote later this week. So please keep praying.

Disturbingly, another legislative committee voted to allow church pension benefits for same-sex partners in states where same sex marriage is legal.

We will work to defeat it in plenary.

More prayers needed! Some local conferences already grant benefits to so-called domestic partners.

The symbol of the 2012 Tampa General Conference.

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Today, most of the African delegates attended a wonderful service at a nearby evangelical United Methodist congregation. A Liberian district superintendent aptly told that church:

“This is what the church in America needs, to evangelize and preach the Word of God before it’s too late.”

Indeed.

The Financial Administration legislative committee rejected anti-Israel divestment by 52-20.

They narrowly instead passed a resolution urging “positive” investment that would help Palestinians rather than hurt Israel. Anti-Israel activists are rife here at General Conference, and their sails were inflated by last week’s biased “Sixty Minutes” story, about which I wrote for The Weekly Standard here.

Tomorrow are Judicial Council elections. Please pray that persons who will faithfully uphold our Discipline are elected.

With appreciation,

Mark Tooley
IRD President
Director, UMAction

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Here is the report from the Confessing Movement:

Sunday, April 29 – Day 6 of General Conference

Sunday is the Lord’s Day at General Conference so no business will be conducted. Legislative groups finished their work late last night (Saturday). Here are a few of the items to report:

  1. A resolution that would have the church withdraw from the Relgious Coalition for Reproductive Choice (RCRC) has passed the legislative group and will be send to the floor of the conference where it will receive opposition.
  2. A related petition which prohibits agencies from joining external coalitions or organizations without approval of the full agency or the General Conference passed 53-22. This was directed to RCRC.
  3. Legislation passed which would limit the Council of Bishops membership only to active bishops (retired bishops have been disruptive and have advanced causes like homosexuality).
  4. The restructuring plan which many felt was the major issue at the conference, did not pass the legislative group. Three different plans were proposed. All three were voted down primarily due to confusion of rules, inability to agree on needed compromises, and an inordinate amount of time spent on arguing who should serve on the oversight board.
  5. The attempt to remove language in the Social Principles which states that the practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching (the basis for all other petitions on homosexual practice) failed 34-43. It had earlier passed the sublegislative group 14-12. There will be a floor fight and probably some demonstrations following the plenary vote.
  6. A somewhat similar petition which would have stated that we agree to disagree on matters of homosexuality failed 33-43.
  7. Definition of marriage as the union of one man and one woman has been reaffirmed.
  8. The petitions brought forth by the Ministry Study mostly failed. However, the petition that would removed guaranteed appointments for ministers in full connection has passed.
  9. A statement strengthening our theological statement by emphasizing the primacy of Scripture passed.A petition allowing other ministries with women besides the official UMW passed in legislative group. This same petition presented by Renew had failed at a number of other General Conferences.
  10. A footnote in Par. 311 which deals with the meaning of homosexuality in clergy matters passed 38-36. This will be debated on the floor of the conference.

All of these actions need discussion and approval by the plenary session before they become official. These debates will begin Monday and will last through Friday.

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Articles that may be of interest:

Methodist Convention This Week in Tampa – Unity Not on the Agenda

April 24, 2012 By: Cal Skinner Category: Conference, First United Methodist Church of Crystal Lake, Gay, Homosexual Agenda, Homosexual Marriage, John Wesley, Marriage, Methodist Church, Tampa, United Methodist Church

The Methodist Church's logo for its 2012 General Conference in Tampa, Florida.

Every four years the United Methodist Church holds a convention.

Just like the Republicans and the Democrats.

This year Methodists affiliated with the UMC will convene in Tampa.  (The vibrant Korean Methodist Church is not one of those affiliated.)

There are just short of 1,000 delegates apportioned, more or less, on the basis of membership.

Liberals in the United States have been trying for more than a decade to follow the example of other Mainline churches in their acceptance of homosexual behavior in society and religious leaders, specifically, clergy.

Because of the astonishing growth of Methodism in Africa, that effort was beaten back in 2004 and 2008.

Both sides think they have a chance to win in 2012.

Seared into my mind are the words (quoted as well as I can remember them below) of an African delegate from eight years ago:

 “I don’t understand why we spend half our time talking about sin. I thought we were supposed to talk about saving souls.”

I’ve just finished reading a biography of the founder of Methodism, John Wesley.

Tucked into Footnote 13 on page 313 of Robert G. Tuttle, Jr.’s “John Wesley, His Life and Theology” is the following:

“…unity and holiness are the two things I want most among Methodists.”

The fight over the acceptability of homosexuality surely does not accomplish Wesley’s goal.

The goal of the liberals is get African votes out of the decision-making mix.

Four years ago they tried, but failed to segregate them.

In different contexts, the same fight will continue in Tampa for eleven days.

According to an article by Mark Tooley of The Institute on Religion & Democracy,

“The U.S. church, where all the liberals are located, is declining and losing representation, while the Africans, who are very conservative, will probably become a majority within the denomination within ten years or less,’ Tooley predicts. ‘So, this year, 2012, may be the last opportunity for the liberal side to win on sexual issues.’

“Since 40 percent of the delegates come from Africa and other overseas locations, Tooley estimates the liberal side would have to get about 80 percent of the U.S. delegates to prevail. He thinks that is unlikely, as conservatives plan to fight hard to keep the denomination aligned biblically in its policies.”

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Other articles that may be of interest:

Message of the Day – A Tee Shirt

June 13, 2010 By: Cal Skinner Category: Fight, Husband, Marriage, Message of the Day, Spat, Special Education Director, Wedding, Wife

A nomal couple appears at their wedding on the left. On the right the wife is yelling at an unhappy guy.

The couple on the left is at a wedding.

How appropriate for June.

The couple on the right seem to be fighting.

What do you want to bet a guy dreamed up this tee shirt?